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Just Say a Few Words

Your boss/colleague/best friend - or perhaps I should say, ex-best friend - asks you to give a short speech.  What happens?  Does your heart start to pound?  Do you look for a place to hide?  Do you start thinking desperately about taking your vacation now so that they cannot find you in Europe?  Giving a presentation can be scary, but with some preparation and planning, they can become, if not a breeze, then certainly less than a heart-stopping ordeal. 

Before

Nothing instills confidence like competence.  Being competent means that you are comfortable with what you are going to say, fairly assured of how the audience is going to respond and are relatively relaxed.  The best way to gain confidence is to practice, practice, practice the presentation.  Whether you write out your speech and try to learn it, or whether you work from a brief outline, 3 x 5 cards, or no notes at all, practicing in advance is critical.  Rehearsing lets you experience the flow and the smoothness of your transitions.  It helps you identify any tongue-twisting areas.  Being knowledgeable about your facts and having well organized material goes a long way toward reducing nervousness. 

Tip:  The best way to practice is out loud: in the car, the shower, into a tape recorder, or before a friend.  Practicing silently can help you memorize, but it is not until you actually hear the words spoken aloud that you can identify areas over which you stumble.  

To avoid the “won’t he/she ever stop talking” reaction, time the length of your presentation, and make sure that it fits within the allotted time.  Your audience will appreciate it, and the meeting planner will love you for it. 

Tip:  Plan your comments so that they are 2-3 minutes shorter than your given time.  It is a mystery of the universe but true, that when you get up in front of the group and give your speech, it will take a little longer than anticipated. 

Dress comfortably on the day of your presentation.  Appropriate attire helps you and your audience feel more comfortable.  This is not the time to try out the new shoes or to wear a tie that you are not absolutely sure about.  Looking good also helps radiate confidence.

Tip: Depending on the importance, venue and formality of the situation, if you must drive a long way arrive earlier and change into your presentation clothing. This eliminates wrinkles and the generally rumpled look.

Do not drink caffeine before you speak, and avoid heavy meals.  If your body is trying to digest your food and giving you the “take a nap” message, it just makes your speech more difficult. 

Tip:  Drinking lukewarm beverages is better than ice water, which makes your vocal chords contract. 

Learn as much about the group you will be facing beforehand as possible.  If you know something about their interests and educational level, it will help you personalize your speech.  If this is not a group you are familiar with, there are a number of ways to gather that information: Ask the person who requested your presentation; speak with others who have previously addressed the group; or, get the names of a few attendees, and call them.  Which option you choose is determined by the type of presentation, the length and formality and, of course, appropriateness.  The goal is to reduce your chances of being surprised by an unexpected situation.

Arrive at your presentation room early.  Forty-five minutes to an hour beforehand is a good rule, and if you are using any audio-visual equipment, test it.

Tip:  Bring spare batteries, bulbs or anything else that can go out at an inopportune time. Be sure to bring a copy of your presentation on a portable thumb drive for insurance.

During

During your presentation, remember to breathe deeply, look at the audience, and smile.  Most groups also enjoy humor, and rather than saying that you are nervous try something like, “This must not be stress reduction week.”  The group is likely to chuckle along with you and be more receptive to what you have to say.  In general, audiences want speakers to succeed.  An agonizing ordeal is hard for both parties.

To help you connect with the audience, try not to stand behind the podium for the entire presentation.  Walk out and toward the audience.   Finding a friendly face to focus on is also helpful.  If you use notes, feel free to refer to them, but don’t read from them.  With rare exceptions, a read speech is a boring speech.  Tip:  If you are nervous, holding your notes will call attention to shaking hands.  Ask for a table on which you can lay them down.  

Remember that some nervousness is beneficial.  It helps keep you alert.  As Marilyn Snyder, of Snyder and Associates, a communications company based in Oakland, California, says:  “If you can’t get rid of the butterflies in your stomach, at least get them to fly in formation.”